What do you with you had been told before your baby was born? What new knowledge would you pass on to an expecting mother?
ON CARING FOR MOMMY
- You will have the worst "period" of your life! Imagine that you've been saving them up for 9 months and they all come at once. Be prepared! ~ Stephanie
- Sleep as much as you can! When the baby sleeps, you sleep, even if it's just for 5 minutes. Take help when offered and allow others to serve you. ~Hayley
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After breastfeeding, use a drop of breast milk instead of lanolin to
sooth sore nipples and keep them from cracking. Works great when you're
out and you forget the lanolin or if you prefer a natural method!
~Stephanie
- You don't need to be mommy for everything. Allow Daddy to take a turn. He needs the bonding time, and you need the break. Start early and allow him to establish as part of the team. ~Stephanie
ON SLEEPING
- I wish I had read "Baby Wise." ~Stephanie, Lisa
- "Never wake a sleeping baby" really only applies to Night Time sleep. If the baby is going to sleep a nap so long they won't sleep at night, wake the sucker up! ~Stephanie
ON FEEDING
- I wish I had been taught/read about the mechanics of breast feeding and the timing of the first feeding. ~Stephanie
- If a child is hungry, they will eat. No use fretting/worrying if they are not eating well one day.. ~Lisa
ON DIAPERS
- Use the lip of the diaper as your first "wipe" for a poopy! This will save you a lot of wipes in the end. ~Stephanie
- Surprise! Baby girls can have a "period" as a newborn. Don't freak out! ~Stephanie
- Don't stock up on diapers! You'll find that you like certain kinds more than others and babies fit different diapers. On top of that, baby skin is sensitive and they can have reactions to the slightest perfume you hadn't even detected. Instead, stock up on the wipes! ~Stephanie
OTHER
- "Never do anything you're not willing to continue" (Binky, sleeping
with them, rocking to sleep, etc) ~Stephanie's Mom, Lisa and all wise
women in my life.x
- Don't stress the small stuff. ~Nikki
- Don't plan on doing or going anywhere that first year after having the baby. ~Amelia's Mom
- If you don't like the newborn stage, that's okay. Stick in there. Take breaks. They get a lot more involved the older they get. Don't get too wrapped up in what the "Best Moms" do; it changes frequently. Do what you feel best doing and don't feel guilty. ~Abby
- Remember, every child is different, every mother is different, and every moment is different. It's a learning experience. Not everything that worked for one person will work for you! Be the best Mommy YOU can be and love it! ~Stephanie's Mother-in-love
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